Mark Siedler (he/him) & Lynetta Avery (she/her)

Mark & Lynetta joined Momma on August 28, 2023 live on Twitch to talk about Healing Wounds to Find Lasting Love

About Mark & Lynetta

Before Mark and Lynetta met, they both started attending the best consciousness and healing trainings that money can buy.  They spent over $125,000 and 25 years learning the best techniques for clearing trauma, attaining peace and manifesting love. Through all the training, they acquired the golden secrets to creating a heart centered, deeply intimate, loving spiritual partnership. They merged the best of these trainings with their own life experiences to create the most unique relationship coaching tools for people. These include two published books: Three Doors to the Soul  and  Do the Work: 5 Steps to Transcend Trauma, Summon Love & Invoke Your Power.  

Mark and Lynetta are the world’s greatest experts at failed relationships so you don’t have to be! 

What’s it like in THEIR soulmate relationship? 

Lynetta never finger points at Mark. When she gets triggered by something, she takes full responsibility. Then they work together to get to the source and clear the original hurt. Mark shares all of his vulnerabilities with Lynetta, including the areas where he struggles internally.  She supports him to face my fears and overcome his inadequacies. This is the first time each of them has ever had a partner who is so well matched in views the world spiritually, mentally and emotionally.  The adventures they have together, both in their private life and in their professional offerings to the world, are fully aligned. In their soulmate relationship, they both feel... Connected. Loved. Embraced.

Socials / Links for More Info

• Website: https://TheSoulmateCoaches.com and https://TheGottmanMethod.com

• Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheSoulmateCoaches

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoulmatecoaches/

• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesoulmatecoaches

• X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/SoulmateCoaches

• Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesoulmatecoaches

• LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/thesoulmatecoaches

References / Things Mentioned During the Stream

• BOOK RECOMMENDATION: Three Doors to the Soul: A Journey through Religion, Science and Spirituality to Reveal Our Souls REAL Purpose by Mark and Lynetta

• BOOK RECOMMENDATION: Do the Work: 5 Steps to Transcend Trauma, Summon Love and Invoke Your Power by Mark and Lynetta

• BOOK RECOMMENDATION: Conversations with God: An Uncommon Dialogue by Neale Donald Walsch

• BOOK RECOMMENDATION: Dying To Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing by Anita Moorjani

• Eshet Chayil - A Woman of Valour passage

• Mark's Favorite Poem: Song of Songs

• Lynetta's Favorite Poem: Out Beyond Ideas of Wrongdoing and Rightdoing

• Sunk Cost Fallacy

Episode Summary

In this enlightening episode of Even Tacos Fall Apart, MommaFoxFire engages in a profound conversation with relationship coaches Mark Siedler and Lynetta Avery. The central theme revolves around the profound process of healing emotional wounds to pave the way for enduring love.

The episode opens with a refreshing discussion on the importance of acknowledging and expressing gratitude in relationships. Lynetta shares her personal journey of cultivating gratitude, emphasizing its transformative power in fostering intimacy and trust. As they delve into the significance of acknowledging both partners and oneself, they each provide practical insights into building a foundation of warmth and love.

The conversation transitions into a reflection on parenting and acknowledging one's children. Lynetta shares her experience of acknowledging her kids, emphasizing the value of creating opportunities for them to share more deeply, fostering a sense of being seen and heard.

Mark and Lynetta then unveil their approach to asking for acknowledgment within a relationship. They stress the importance of expressing one's needs and desires, creating a reciprocal environment that strengthens the bond between partners.

As MommaFoxFire, Mark and Lynetta all delve into the topic of affirmations, they share the positive impact of incorporating affirmations into daily routines. Lynetta details her practice of affirmations with her children, highlighting the potential for such rituals to strengthen family bonds.

The conversation takes an introspective turn as they discuss the steps outlined in Mark's books, "Three Doors to the Soul" and "Do the Work." Lynetta shares her personal journey of healing from past traumas, emphasizing the power of storytelling and transformational tools in the process.

Mark and Lynetta weave through the chapters of the books, touching upon the importance of acknowledging one's story, understanding its impact and employing transformational tools to facilitate healing. They stress the bliss that emerges from embracing this healing journey and the significance of sharing these experiences to inspire others.

In a candid moment, Mark and Lynetta discuss self-care, acknowledging its challenges and the importance of being true to oneself. They dismantle common myths about relationships, emphasizing that everyone has the potential to find a fulfilling partnership, debunking the idea that all the good ones are taken.

MommaFoxFire, Mark and Lynetta compassionately address those experiencing deep pain, assuring them that it's okay not to embrace optimistic perspectives immediately. They emphasize that healing takes time and encourage listeners to find the approach that resonates with them.

This episode serves as a beacon of wisdom, guiding listeners through the intricacies of healing wounds, fostering gratitude, and cultivating lasting love. Mark and Lynetta's personal experiences and insights create a tapestry of inspiration, encouraging everyone to embark on their unique journey towards profound connections and self-discovery.